1. No Social Media
You’ve been talking to each other for a while, yet you aren’t allowed to post any photos on social media with the person… or even worse, you aren’t even Facebook friends nor do they follow you on Instagram. Their excuse is that they just haven’t gotten around it. Yet, every time you are together it’s all they do, what does this mean? You’re simply just a booty call…
2. Only late texts, possibly phone calls
They never text you good morning, now that you think about it; they never text you at all unless it’s after 11 p.m. What’s wrong with that you ask? It’s booty call hour. If you are looking for something serious or expect something more than just a hook up at that hour you are completely looking in the wrong places.
3. No sleepovers
Not only do they make you come to them, but you think that you might possibly be spending the night. So you pack your bag and head out, after you are finished they say they have things to do. Or basically has every excuse in the book to kick you out without actually asking you to leave… at this point please know that you are nothing but a booty call…
4. Their friends don’t know about you
You’ve had a “thing” for a while, yet you realize that you’ve never been introduced to any friends/family or anyone that he socializes with at that point. You ask them why, they say that it hasn’t come up. When you ask if it will they can’t give you a straight answer. Why is that? The harsh truth is that they don’t plan on doing so. They have no intentions in bringing you around anyone that they are close with. The reason being? They are only using you for a booty call.
5. No dates
Whenever you do hangout it’s only at the person’s house or in a nonpublic setting. You mention various times that you want to go out and do something fun. Yet, every time it comes up they have an excuse for not wanting to go; they are tired from work, they have homework, busy with other things or they simply say that they would rather stay in. In some instances this is completely understandable, but when this seems to pop up every time that you ask you should know that you’re nothing but a booty call.
Now, this doesn’t only apply to male’s, females have guys on call as well so if you are expecting anything from a relationship with someone keep in mind those signs and make sure you aren’t just the booty call. Unless that’s what you are looking for as well that is.
