1. He only calls you around booty call hour.
I know you want to be available for him at all hours especially if you are truly into him, but when the only time he seems to call is around 1-2 a.m. or basically any hour after 10 p.m. he probably doesn’t truly want to pursue a relationship with you. Sorry ladies.
2. He doesn’t take you to public places.
If he isn’t showing you off to his friends, or anyone else he might know then he obviously doesn’t want others knowing about you.
3. You aren’t friends on Facebook.
I know that sounds over rated, but why isn’t he your friend on social media? What’s he got to lose? He is probably afraid that you will tag him in everything and anything resulting in people finding out about you and then he would have to let you down by saying that you aren’t what he is looking for…
4. He never introduces you to his friends.
You see his friends in public and you quietly stand behind waiting for him to introduce you as his girlfriend, boo thang, anything. Yet he never does. When you bring it up he finds every reason to tell you why he didn’t. Let’s get real, if he doesn’t show you off or brag to his friends about how amazing you might be then he most likely does not want to be with you.
5. He says he isn’t looking for a relationship.
He tells you that he doesn’t want anything serious because he isn’t seeking anything long term. Yet he continues to lead you on and treat you as if you are his one and only, but when you want to DTR (Define The Relationship) he tells you that he doesn’t want a relationship. He gives you a million excuses to why not but at the end of the day, the answer is still no.